These are two different materials with two different failure modes. Treating them the same is how good pieces get ruined.

Tapestry — the woven pieces

Heavyweight jacquard at 18 to 28 oz holds a great deal of water. Wet, a tapestry jacket is heavy enough to stretch under its own weight, and that stretch does not come back.

  • Hand wash cold, or dry clean. Never a hot machine cycle.
  • Do not wring. Press the water out; twisting distorts the weave.
  • Dry flat. Hanging a soaked tapestry piece is the single most common way they are damaged — the shoulders and hem pull downward and stay there.
  • Do not iron. Heat flattens the texture that makes the fabric what it is. Steam at a distance if you must.

Tapestry rarely needs washing. It is an outer layer; airing usually does it. Wash only when you actually need to.

Garment-dyed cotton — the Core pieces

Garment dyeing means the finished piece was dyed, not the yarn. That is what gives the lived-in colour, and it also means the colour keeps moving slightly for the first few washes.

  • Wash cold, inside out, with similar colours. The first two washes release the most dye.
  • Tumble low or hang dry. High heat is what shrinks 100% cotton, and ours is 7.5 oz — heavy enough to have somewhere to shrink from.
  • Expect it to change. Garment-dyed black softens toward charcoal, pepper deepens. That is the material behaving correctly.

The distressed pieces

Distressing is deliberate damage, which means the fabric is already open in those places. Holes and raw hems will grow slowly with wear — that is the point — but washing hot or drying hot accelerates it sharply. Cold and gentle keeps a distressed tee looking intentional rather than finished.

In one line

Cold water, low heat, dry flat for tapestry, and wash far less often than you think.

Core · Tapestry

September 24, 2026 — Funeral Apparel